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Korea – A Model of Development for Other Nations?

January 31st, 2011

Quite frankly it really is a very difficult undertaking to pen the correct words that finest explain the transitions Korea has gone via these past thirty years. In the course of my time in Korea in between 1978 and 1981, I traveled extensively to every single corner of the country. Rather likely I’ve observed additional of Korea than most Koreans. But I can’t even start to identify Yonhi-dong where my family and I lived throughout that previously time – the magnificent Korean Gate standing to the property of your school my children attended is the only part on the college that stays unchanged -the workplace where I worked in Kwanghwamun bears little resemblance towards the cold dusty spaces we occupied thirty years in the past – no lengthier is there a young boy heading through the offices in search of footwear to shine for the few peck won necessary for his daily meal – the yakultlady doesn’t appear to create the same rounds as she did prior to – the tabang inside the basement of our offices gave way empty space – the Korean War widowed ggot lady is no lengthier selling flowers at the corner inside the cold of winter to make cash to care for her children and guarantee their education and her prayer of hope for his or her superior life [both children graduated from university simply because of her perseverance] -the over-packed buses, belching smoke, no lengthier rattle along the roads, each in will need of repair; its clients now experience on laptop or computer managed subways and clean buses unmindful with the earlier days – there’s now a stream flowing by way of the center of Seoul which was formerly employed as a road with a 2nd elevated highway running over when I lived in Seoul – the amazing Kyongbokgung, for years concealed behind the Japanese-built authorities buildings that have now disappeared, opening up a magnificent display of breathtaking Korean architecture that I was never in a position to knowledge when I lived in Seoul thirty many years back. Rather frankly, it truly is difficult for these outdated eyes to modify to the Korea that unfolds prior to me nowadays.

It virtually feels as if one woke one day from a dream and noticed a unique country materializing magically in front of him. Naturally, it truly is in fact the result on the vision of Korean nationwide leaders, the very difficult work of authorities planners in harmony using the personal sector [most in the time] and also the indomitable will of your folks of Korea that brought the magnificent alterations we see nowadays.

I keep in mind my own youth in Los Angeles in the 1940s and 1950s – yes, a extended time in the past. Life seemed so substantially simpler then. The pace was slower – people today weren’t in these kinds of a hurry, the street cars seemed to move the population about the city pretty properly and effectively – households had been rooted in their communities and never provided to moving every single few years as will be the situation these days – children were a blessing to be nurtured and cherished instead of shuttled off to daycare centers so their mother and father could reside the “American Dream.” Our elected officials felt a better duty and accountability to their constituencies, or so it seemed. Public schools were places of schooling where meeting specifications dictated transferring forward from one 12 months to the next as opposed to the social adjustment concerns that so occupy United States’ school systems currently. Complete careers had been much more most likely spent within a single firm rather than the continuous alterations which might be knowledgeable nowadays mainly because back then there existed a better sense of loyalty from both employer and worker. In California we now run billion dollar deficits due to the fact of your excesses of government investing that seemingly has no controls in any way. Each and every particular curiosity is met with a handout. Even those that reach the united states illegally are entitled to additional than people who are diligently working to take care of their households and themselves.

A country’s core is deeply affected when fundamental values are so very easily altered to reflect the newest trend sweeping across a nation. That appears to become the case inside the United States over the past several years. Our political leaders, in both parties, appear bent on alter with out substantive insight on how our society might be impacted.

During our President’s current check out to Africa, we heard many comparisons in speeches and in the press about development progress. It was commonplace to study political commentaries that compared the Growth Domestic Product [GDP] of Korea and Kenya in the 1960s to currently. The comparisons are staggering in each circumstances.
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What is Personal Development

January 30th, 2011


Personal Development is a word that is crossing many people lips these days, but what exactly is it and what does it cover?

Personal Development, when you really break it down, is all about furthering yourself, investing in your own growth. This is actually something that we have all be doing for all of our lives. In its basic form Personal Development is really just education for, and about ourselves. So our introduction to Personal Development was really our first day in kindergarten. Some of our lessons have been structured, some of it not so structured.

We could break our school lessons into two different fields. Personal and Professional Development. Any lessons that were applicable to succeeding in our working life, formed our Professional Development. Religious/Spiritual studies, school rules, where forms of Personal Development, teaching us how to get the most out of our lives and how to treat ourselves and other people.

However, if we’re talking about the modern Personal Development industry then it is focus is more on understanding who we really are, finding our true potential and living a life filled with more passion and joy.

Competition today is higher than it has ever been, there are more people vying for the same job and looking for the next promotion. In the past getting the edge on those around you was a simple case of being more skilled in a certain area. Back then, knowledge was power. With the advent of the internet and easy access to knowledge, power is now the application of knowledge. And so the new “edge” is having personal power, confidence and leadership skills.

One of the interesting side effects of striving to be better than the next guy is that we discovered more about ourselves, and that to be truly successful we are far better off to “follow our bliss.” This is the opposite of the previous ideas of just aiming to beat the people around you. If you focus on what brings you joy and what you are good at then success will surely follow. The majority of the most successful people in the world, and I’m talking about those that are successful in health, relationship and finances, have all followed their passions. They aren’t necessarily smarter or better educated than the next guy.

To me this is what the Personal Development industry is really all about. Discovering your strengths and weaknesses, learning to focus and use the things that make you unique and happy, and breaking through old limiting beliefs. If properly integrated into your life, learning these skills and concepts can enable you to bring more joy, purpose and prosperity into all areas of your life.

All the great philosophical teachers were essentially in the Personal Development industry. Personal Development has been around since we first started to think. These great teachers searched for more meaning to life and through their teachings we are able to be better people.

Currently, the Personal Development industry is estimated to worth approx US$19Billion worldwide, with a growth rate of 20% per year! The book/movie, “The Secret” and motivational speakers like Anthony “Tony” Robbins are hot on everyone’s lips and have helped launch Personal Development into the mainstream.

It’s not just about motivation and inspiration though. It’s really about TRANSFORMATION. It’s about taking your current self and learning new tools and beliefs to transform your life from the ordinary into the extra-ordinary! You can start by reading one of the thousands of books out there, watching a movie or videos, listening to audio, dong a home study course or attending a multi-day event. There are the classics like “Think & Grow Rich” and the new age Hollywood of “The Secret”. The choice is yours. Have a look around and look for a teacher or guide that resonates with you and take it from there. What works for one person may not work for others. It’s about finding the one that works for you and that you like.

You could start with some of the classic teachers like Napoleon Hill, Earl Knightingale or Wallace D. Wattles. More modern guides include Abraham-Hicks, Eckhart Tolle and Bob Proctor. Whatever choices you make, as long as you take a little action you can start bringing your dream life one step closer.

By: Iain Forrest

About the Author:
Iain Forrest is a Successful Entrepreneur. He is committed to helping everyday people change their circumstances and enter into a new life of prosperity, wealth and Freedom. If the thought of owning your own Personal Development Business with low start up costs, simple systems and full training sounds appealing then check out his webiste at http://www.RedefineEverything.com/



Parenting Practices – Infant Development And Tips For Effective Parenting

January 30th, 2011


The period from birth to two years is known as Infancy. The infant grows rapidly during this period. A baby experiences tremendous physical, mental, emotional, and social development. Many times, parenting involves on the job training, in that we learn to deal with situations as they arise. All parents, at one time or another, question whether or not their child is growing and developing as they should be compared to other children of the same age.

It is important to remember that all children are unique, and no two children grow at exactly the same rate. Some infants are very calm and quiet, while others are more active and demanding of attention.While each baby has his or her own “schedule,” all babies develop in similar patterns. This article will focus on the child’s development from birth to 12 months in all the areas of physical, mental, emotional and social development, along with some guidelines for parents to help their child grow. We will begin with child’s physical development.

PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT:

From birth, children have an innate ability to adapt to the surrounding environment. They just need re-enforcement to get used to the environment in which he/she is brought up. Right after the birth to 2 months, baby recognizes his/her mother through smell. He will turn head towards the source of sound, but is only able to see clearly for the distance around 2 feet. As the time goes and the baby reaches the age of 3 months, he is able to hold finger or rattle. This baby can hold up head when lying on stomach and starts gaining regular eating and sleeping patterns. When an infant becomes 6 months of age, he/she can reach for objects and sit with support. Now the baby can see things far away and can take solid food, here he gets his first teeth. From 7 to 9 months, he/she starts crawling and sit alone for a short period of time. He uses his thumb and pointing fingers to pick up objects. By the end of 12 month, baby drinks from and cup and eat with fingers. He pulls to stand and stands alone, now he is able to walk holding onto objects and can throw a ball.

MENTAL DEVELOPMENT:

Once a baby is born, he/she starts copying the facial expressions of adults such as frowns, smiles or surprises as early as 2 days of age. By third month the baby starts responding through cooing sounds to adults who talk to him. Talking to the baby at this age helps in brain development. As 6th month approaches, infant responds to the talk of adults through sound and movement, which goes on till 9th month. By the end of 9 month, baby copies speech sounds. He is now able to connect situations, for eg, he knows what will happen next when someone begins to prepare for bath for feed him. Here the child responds when his/her name is called. As 12th month approaches, baby starts speaking his/her first words. At this stage the child becomes aware about the fact that the things do not disappear because he/she cannot see them.

EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT:

Soon after birth, as the parent responds to the baby cries, he/she learns how to control his or her emotions, and accordingly clam himself/herself. As the child approaches 3months of age, he/she communicates through his cries if something is wrong. For eg, cries for a wet diaper is different from cries of hunger or pain. By 6th month, infant learns how to feel and show various emotions like joy, pleasure, sad, fear and anger. At the end of 12th month, this child is able to show different emotions, using sounds, actions and facial expressions.

SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT:

The baby starts developing a strong bond with his/her mother soon after birth. Similarly he/she starts associating with the people around him. Baby has different has responses to mothers and fathers. He/she tends to be more excited and active when with father, and more clam and relaxed with mother. By 3rd month. the parent or care giver helps in forming and strong bond which helps the child to soothe himself. At this stage lot of loving touches, and eye contact is needed to help develop strong bond. As 6th month approaches, baby is able to create a bond with more than one person. He/she enjoys talking and playing with adults and older children around. At the end of 12 months, the baby is now familiar with the people around. He is now able to express himself/herself more clearly. The child now recognizes familiar people around and is now able to express his/her needs more clearly.

As we have come to know about the various stages of infancy, here are some points which parents can keep in mind to help their child grow.

? Crying is the first way of communication for baby to his/her parents. As parents you can help the baby develop a sense of trust and to feel secure by coming to the baby when he/she cries. As time passes parents are able to tell what baby needs through his cries- food, dry diaper or just to be held close.

? While feeding, baby must be held close, so that he/she can see your face while being fed, along with lot of touches and strokes. This helps to develop a strong bond between the parent and baby.

? Reading and singing to your child can help in learning to talk by hearing others speak. Babies love rhymes, song and picture books.

? Be sure to put baby to bed on his/her back. Remove pillows, stuffed toys and fluffy blankets from the bed. If blanket is needed, bring it up only as high as under arms and tucked in at the bottom. At times baby can get smothered on soft bedding.

? Choosing a proper caretaker for an infant is a Must. Choose someone who is able to spend time holding the baby, talking to you baby and who will make sure that area is safe and clean along with attending to all the needs of the baby.

? Provide a safe home for your baby. As infant begins to crawl, as through crawling the child explores the area around him and the muscles get exercise to grow strong. It is important to remove all the unsafe objects out of his/her reach. Be sure that all the electric outlets are out of the baby’s reach. Also keep small objects away from infants, as they have the tendency to put anything around in their mouth. The baby might swallow and small objects and choke.

By keeping all the above mentioned points in mind, You as parents can help your child to develop into a healthy normal individual and as well cherish each and every moment with your little angel.

By: Deepika Haldankar

About the Author:
Deepika Haldankar, is a freelance writer, having experience with working with children with different age groups since last 3yrs. She has majored in Human development and Family Studies, along with Human Resource Management and Guidance and Counseling. She has taken up writing as a hobby as well as one of the source to gain and impart knowledge.